December 1, 2010

I just got home from spending the morning with my cousin, Philip. Sean and I went out to dinner with him last night at the italian restaurant in old town we went to with Sean's dad, Paul, and his brothers. Paul made a great impression on the owner of the restaurant, Romeo, so when I called to make the reservation, Romeo was thrilled to hear we were coming back. He gave us three gin and tonics as we walked into the restaurant. We politely accepted, but the drinks were not touched. I had the lamb and risotto, the same meal that the Prince of Sweden comes in to get twice a month, according to Romeo.

I met Philip at his hotel this morning. We walked through old town and then into new town. When we walked outside, the sun was sitting right above the horizon and by 12:00, it had not risen, but it had moved across the sky and was sitting on the other side of the city. It was about 10 degrees fahrenheit all morning. We walked to a little island called Skeppsholmen that sits in between new town and old town. There is a castle there with a lot of small fortresses. We had a great view of old town and the Royal Palace from there. There was sea smoke that was visible all morning. Sea smoke appears when the water is warmer than the air. We walked back into old town where we did some Christmas shopping. We grabbed lunch at O'Leary's as well. I said goodbye to him at his hotel. It was great to see someone from my family.

Last week, Sean had members of his family visit us. Sean's dad came on Sunday, November 21. Paul and I went to Sean's game that night. Erik Rosen's father, Tomas, drove us to the game. Erik is one of Sean's teammates and good friends. Unfortunately, Sean's team lost 9-2. Sean's uncles, Patrick and Steve, came on Wednesday. Paul and his brothers grew up in Boston. Patrick and Steve still live there. Patrick is 18 years younger than Paul as well. They bantered with each other all week, which was entertaining for me. We went out to lunch that day on the Gondolen, which looks like a big crane that sits above Slussen. There's a great view of the city from there. On Thursday night, we had Thanksgiving dinner at the Sheraton hotel. Before dinner, we all went to O'Leary's to watch the Patriots game. Sean and his family are all die hard Boston sports fans, so I kept my feelings to myself as I watched the game. We invited Logan Miller, Erik, and Erik's mother and father to dinner. It was much different than Thanksgiving in Philadelphia with the entire Walsh family. They served us a traditional Thanksgiving dinner, however, the stuffing was a little strange looking, so I stuck with the turkey and sweet potatoes. Tomas treated Paul and his brothers to some traditional Swedish liquor. The liquor had a strong smell and by the look of their faces, it had a strong taste too. Paul and Patrick are both big guys, but their brother Steve has a wiry build and weighs about 150 pounds. As the liquor kept coming, he said to Sean that he was going to be in trouble when he stood up. We went home at around 12:00. The whole night was a lot of fun.

On Friday night, we went to that italian restaurant for dinner. I got a huge kick out of some of the things that the brothers said to each other. At one point, Patrick offered Paul some of his lamb. He handed Paul his fork with a piece of it on it. Paul reached over with his fork, and tried to take the piece off. Patrick said, "Just take the fork, Paul." Paul refused to touch his fork and said, "I guess we're at a stalemate here." As we we were walking out of the restaurant, a drunk woman decked out in fur with dreadlocks coming out of her beaver hat walked up to Paul and started babbling Swedish to him. Paul engaged in a conversation with her for a few minutes even though she had no idea what he was saying. I had to go home because of my game the next day, while they went off to walk around the city. As the lady stood in the middle of the street deliriously, not knowing which way to go, Paul yelled at her to follow me.

Sean and I are all alone again for the next week or so until my dad comes on December 11th. He is coming for four nights. He'll be able to watch two of my games. My team is 7-5-2. My next game is Saturday.

November 21, 2010

We won our game today 6-2 at Vasby. The team played relatively well as a whole. Our record so far is 7-4-1. I finished +2 in the game.

Last Saturday we had an away game at Nykoping. They have more points in the series than we do so it was an important game to win. With about 10 minutes left in the 1st period, one of our forwards tipped my shot from the point into the goal. After celebrating and getting onto our bench, the referee came over with the roster and asked our coach where number 7 (my number) was on it. I was nowhere to be found on the roster, so the goal was disallowed and I was unfortunately not allowed to play in the rest of the game. While I was getting undressed in the locker room, my defensive partner came in cursing in Swedish. He scored a goal 5 minutes after my disallowed goal, but his name was also not on the roster, so his goal was disallowed and he was not allowed to play either. My confusion and anger was only temporary, for we won the game 6-1.


On Thursday night, we had our most exciting and crazy night in Sweden. I was getting ready for bed in my room and Sean was on the couch watching TV. I heard Sean say to me, "Hey Allie, come look at this." Then, all of sudden he yelled, "Hey!" About a minute later, Sean came into my room out of breath and said, "Two people just tried breaking into our apartment." When he was on the couch, he saw the door handle turn and the door slowly opened. When he saw a shadow through the crack, he yelled, "Hey!" The people then ran down the stairs and Sean chased them downstairs. He saw what the people looked like when they ran out of the building. So, Sean and I went outside looking for the people. When Sean saw them down the street, we approached them. It was a Middle Eastern man carrying a black bag and a young Swedish woman carrying a brown bag. They said that they thought our apartment was empty. They admitted that they were looking for a place to stash drugs. When we told them we were calling the police, they started walking away. As we were telling the police what happened and where we were on the phone, we were following the man and the woman. The police caught up with us right near a cemetery. We told them that we lost them, so they sped off looking for them. As we were walking through the cemetery, Sean saw them walking out of it. We heard the police cars approaching us, so we flagged them down and told them where they were. After the police got the full report from us, we were able to go back home. Sean and I both felt like we just accomplished something big as we walked away. I wonder what would have happened if were sleeping when they tried to break in. 


Sean's dad arrived this morning. We are going to watch Sean's game at Nykoping this afternoon. 


I have a home game tomorrow night. 

November 9, 2010

We won our game last night 4-3 in overtime. We were trailing 3-1 in the third period, but we were able to bury two goals in time. We got a lot of help from the referees as well. In overtime, the other team had a 3 on 1, but the ref blew the whistle because one of our players was down in their zone. He was clearly faking an injury, as he went out on the next shift and scored the game winning goal. He was able to celebrate his goal without hobbling, but when it came time to get interviewed after the game, he needed the help of a teammate to walk out of the locker room. 

After the game, Sean and I went to the grocery store to get food for dinner- we made tacos. When I was paying for the groceries, the lady held up an item and said, "Kommer ni ihag hur mycket kostar detta?" Now I've been taking Swedish classes twice a week for the past month, so I tried to impress Sean and the lady by trying to pretend like I understood what she said. I responded by saying, "Jaha" which means "Okay" or "I understand." The lady looked puzzled and the guy behind me started laughing, which then made the lady laugh. The guy said, "She asked you do you remember how much this costs." I was embarrassed and felt like a dumb American.

Sean and I have a routine so that on every other Tuesday, we go to the grocery store to stock our kitchen. We go through the store with our little baskets, and when we find something, I put one in my basket and he puts the same thing in his basket. We eat a lot and go through food quickly, so we find that this way works. 

Last Friday, Sean had a bunch of the guys on his team over because they had the weekend off. It was fun to see more people in our apartment. Before the party, we made a couple new additions to our apartment. We bought christmas lights and tied them through the wooden beams in the ceiling. Sean's friend, Erik, gave us a table and six chairs for our place. However, we're down to five chairs after I broke one when trying to sit in it. 

On Saturday night, I went out with Logan Miller, the other American on my team. We had trouble getting into the bars and clubs, because they said we were too young, but I think we just didn't look the part. After about an hour and a half, we finally got into a club. I handed my ID to the bouncer, and after glancing at it, he looked up and said, "You're from New Jersey? Do you watch the Sopranos? Do you live near that house?" I didn't know what answer he was looking for so I just said, "Yes, I live right near where they filmed the show." His eyes opened wide and he yelled, "That's awesome! Come right in." I never thought being from New Jersey would ever get me in somewhere overseas.

October 27, 2010

It is my day off today, and I am headed to Sean's game tonight. Sean's team has been struggling as of late, so it should be exciting to see if they can get a win. Our team got a good win on Friday. We won 7-3 and the whole team played well. One of our top forwards, Nicholas Magnusson, did not play in the game and will be out for a month with a foot injury. I played well, and finished +2.

I went out with Logan and a couple guys on the team on Saturday night. The night scene in Stockholm is like nothing I have ever seen before. That may be because I am not legally allowed to go to bars in America, but I imagine that its different in Sweden. The bar we went to had a younger crowd than the places I have gone with Sean previously. The music is really loud and consists of mostly house music and techno. My teammates spent most of their time losing their money on the blackjack table, which was funny to watch.

The days are getting shorter and colder. Daylight savings is on Saturday, which should make everything that much more extreme. I just received news yesterday that my cousin Philip is coming to Stockholm at the end of November after Sean's dad and uncles leave. It will be great to see familiar faces.

October 18, 2010

It has been a week since Sean and I returned to Sweden from the weekend at home. The weather was noticeably colder when we got here and the days are getting darker and darker. The leaves have changed colors and are starting to fall. The scene in the city is beautiful. On Wednesday, I went to the Nordic Museum on the eastern part of Stockholm. I got in for free and walked around the four story museum for awhile. The building seemed to be a renovated castle. I saw a cool exhibit on the Saami, the indigenous people from Sweden that lived in the northern part of the country. After the museum, I walked along the water, and saw many people living in their boats.

I just got back from my third Swedish class. The class consists of about 10 people. My classmates come from different countries like Iraq, Poland, and Belgium and the age range is about 17-35. My teacher, Linda, only speaks to us in Swedish, which is difficult and frustrating at times. The Swedish language is really hard to understand, but the verbs don't have different tenses, which helps a lot. Class is about 2 hours along, and we receive a decent amount of homework after each class.

We won our game on Saturday 5-4 in overtime. We were down 4-1 in the third period, but we came back and tied the game with under a minute left. In the 4 on 4 overtime, my teammate, Henkan, won the face off in the offensive zone and surprised the goalie with a quick shot. It was an exciting win.

On Thursday morning, the cable and internet was set up in our apartment. We receive the channel ESPN America and it airs a lot of American sports, which is a nice taste of home. I was able to watch the Yankees game live on Saturday, which was really exciting, but unfortunately they lost badly. Yesterday, I stumbled upon the Patriots game live on channel 10 while surfing through the channels. Sean was thrilled. They won the game in overtime.

I have an away game tonight.

October 3, 2010

We had our first regular season home game last night against Vallentuna. Our team played really well from start to finish. We were up 1-0 after the first, 2-0 after the second, and finished 4-0. Vallentuna was not that strong, but they had some good scoring chances. Our coach was pleased with our performance after the game. 

After the game last night, I was on my home and I realized once I was on my street that I didn't have my wallet. I remembered taking out my metro card to get into the subway in Slussen. I asked the man at the ticket window in Medborgaplatsen, my stop, how I could call and report a lost wallet on the subway, but he couldn't speak English and just told me to move along. I got back on the subway and went back to Slussen. I retraced all my steps, expecting to see it on the ground somewhere, but I had no luck. My last hope was that someone had picked it up and given it to the man at the ticket window in Slussen. Sure enough, he had it and gave it to me. 

Logan Miller from Alaska arrived on Friday. He is staying with our teammate, Johan Granqvist. He couldn't play in the game last night because of migration issues, but he is going to play in our game tomorrow night against Trangsund. 

I start school tomorrow at Folk University, which I'm excited about. I got the two books I need a few days ago at a book store in the north part of the city. Classes are around two hours a day for two days a week. 

September 28, 2010

We lost our season opener on Saturday 6-1. The rink was an hour away and sat about 2,000 people. The other team was more skilled than us and most of the game was spent in our defensive zone. Our team also did not play well at all. We kept up with them in the first period and went into the second trailing 1-0. I hit the post on a one-timer on a power-play in the first. In the second period, we fell apart and they put in three goals. In the 19th minute of the second, I had a high hit and the player went down grabbing his face and screaming. They gave me a 10-2 penalty for contact to the head. Similar to European soccer, there was a lot of acting on the part of both teams. After the game, our coach made us go on a run. At practice the next day, we skated for about 15 minutes. Our next game is on Saturday.

We have yet to get the internet and cable set up in our apartment. Sean leaves for his sister's wedding on Wednesday morning.

September 14, 2010

Sean and I moved into our apartment last Thursday. The apartment is located in Medborgarplatsen in Sodermalm. Its in the southern part of the city and a few subway stops from the heart of the city. The apartment is a two bedroom, one bathroom and it is unfurnished. Sean and I slept on the floor on Thursday night, which was uncomfortable, but we were glad to finally have a place of our own.


My parents came on Friday night, so I slept in their hotel. Sean slept at one of his friend's apartments. On Saturday, we went to Ikea to buy beds, kitchen supplies, dressers, etc. The whole operation there was so efficient and organized. We packed what we could in the car and the rest was schedule to be delivered that night. We walked around Gamla Stan that afternoon, which is the oldest part of the city. We saw the castle and the narrowest street in the city- 38 inches wide.


On Sunday, we went to Sean's game at the Nacka Ishal. A soccer game happened to take place right next to the rink, which was pretty cool to watch. Sean had 2 goals and 1 assist in a 3-3 tie. After the game we went out to dinner with John Magnusson and his family at an Italian restaurant close to Nacka. Sean and I said goodbye to my parents that night, as their flight was early in the morning the next day. My parents came at the perfect time because they were able to help us furnish the apartment. The apartment is complete except we are without television and internet.


My next game is this Sunday. Sean has his season opener tomorrow night.

September 7, 2010

From Friday afternoon until Tuesday morning, I stayed with my teammate, Robin. He lives in Tyreso Strand, which is a 40 minute drive southeast of the city. His house is in the woods and overlooks the Baltic Sea. I slept in Robin's old room, which was nice. Robin's grandmother was also staying at the house, which was pretty interesting. Her english was surprisingly sufficient. On Saturday, Robin and his parents went to a wedding in the city, so I was alone at the house all day. It was hard to keep myself busy, but the day eventually ended. On Sunday, I had a home game against a team from the west coast of Sweden. They were probably the weakest team we have played so far. However, they were feisty and a couple fights erupted. We won 5-2 (EN).


I met Sean and Johan (Sean's teammate) in the city on Monday afternoon. The men's team played in a weekend tournament three hours away. They won both games. After lunch, we went to Johan's apartment in Medborgarplatsen. Johan has a one bedroom studio and it is tiny, but its in a great location. Sean and I can really appreciate how lucky Johan is to have this apartment, because after 24 days, we still are homeless. We are back in a hotel- this time we're in the Rica Hotel in the city. We looked at an apartment today near the Globe with Sean's manager, Tony, who is a character. It was in a dreary complex and it did not have a working bathroom. Yet, Sean and I were seriously considering taking it because at this point, we'll take anything that we can get. We told the landlord that we will give him an answer by the end of the week. Tomorrow, we're looking at three apartments in Sodermalm, which is a district in the city. Sean and I are hopeful that we can move in tomorrow and finally unpack our bags.


My parents are coming on Friday which will be great. My next game is on September 19th.

August 30, 2010

This is the last night in The Park Inn. This is hopefully the last time I will have to spend 16 nights in a row at a hotel. 

Anyway, my team lost on Thursday, 4-0. It was the same team from the first game, but they were noticeably bigger and faster. The word was that they dropped a handful of players from their men's team. It didn't help that we didn't played well at all and we were missing 3 of our best players- they were playing in our own men's game. 

We also lost our game against Trangsund on Sunday, 5-4. We were fully loaded and we played pretty well for the first two periods. We led 4-2 going in to the third period, and felt no pressure from the other team. We should have felt a little pressure because after a couple defensive mishaps, the score was 4-4 with about 10 minutes left. Another defensive mistake at the 6 minute mark led to the game winning goal. There was a big scrum in front and our goalie didn't cover, and one of their players put it away. After the game, we were all hanging our heads. Our coach came in and gave what seemed to be a motivational speech, but I couldn't tell you what he actually said because I didn't understand one word. 

However, there were two funny parts of that game. My defensive partner, Sebastian, said to me early on in the game, "You go ahead and rush the puck, I have your back. I know you are going to score today, I have a seventh sense." I knew what he meant. 

After I got an assist on the first goal, Sebastian said to me on the bench, "Did you get the ass?" After I asked him to repeat himself a few times, I finally understood what he meant. He just wanted to make sure that I got the assist.

We have an away game tomorrow. 

August 24, 2010

Sean and I arrived in Stockholm midday on Sunday, August 15th. John Magnussen picked us up promptly and drove us to the rink. We were both exhausted, yet we put on a happy and excited front and went along with the tour of the Nacka Ishal. The whole scene looks like something one would see in Siberia. As you turn into the rink, there is an enormous gravel soccer field to your left. The rink is to the right and looks like a large blue barn. John showed us the 'weight room' inside of the rink. It consists of a a bench, a squat rack, a few bars, and bunch of plates of different weights. The walls of the room are wooden planks that do not reach the ceiling. The ice sheet is the smallest in all of Sweden, but its normal size for the States. The practice that was taking place during our tour was by far the best part of the Nacka Ishal. The 96's that were playing all had phenomenal hands, and they all looked like they were having fun. There were no wind sprints or Russian circles, only small games. 


My first practice was quite similar. The emphasis was on puck control and passing. For some reason I was able to disregard my fatigue and my jet lag and embrace the situation for what it was. 24 hours earlier, I was on my to the airport in New Jersey. Here I was, playing hockey with a team consisting of all Swedes fresh off the airplane, and I was loving it. I was able to delay the shock of where I was and all of the emotions that I was feeling. Once I got off the ice and settled into the Park Inn in Hammerby, the shock set in.


On Monday night, Sean, Kathy, Paul, and I went out to dinner in Stockholm with a friend of Chris Brady named Sven, his wife, and his daughter, Alice. They were extremely nice and gave us plenty of tips about the city. I had some delicious swedish meatballs for dinner. Alice gave us her phone number and offered to take us out and show us around the city. After dinner, Sean and I walked around the city for awhile. One thing I noticed is that everyone here is good-looking and tall. 


Stockholm consists of eight islands connected by bridges and tunnels. So nearly everywhere you look you can see a view of the water. The city is beautiful right now, but everyone keeps warning us about the impending winter and how it all changes come October. 


Every day brought a similar regime. I would go the rink in the late afternoon. My team and I would run 2-3 miles before going on the ice. I was not prepared for the running part. I kept up with the team, but it seemed like they were having fun while running, as they were laughing and joking. I, on the other hand, was cramping and short of breath. I hid it well though and finished right with the team. One day brought a different pre-practice exercise. Our trainer brought us to this muddy patch of grass and started to yell orders in Swedish. The goalie on my team translated for me. He wanted us to lay on our backs, while our partner straddled us and tried to keep us pinned. I was supposed to try to flip onto my belly. At first I thought it was a joke, but when I saw my teammates doing it with smiles on their faces, I knew I was mistaken. So over the next thirty minutes or so, I proceeded to wrestle with my sweaty teammates in the mud. After, one guy said to me, "I bet they don't do this in America!"


On Sunday, we played our first game. My game was home and Sean's was away. The team we were playing was a little bigger than us, but I could tell that they weren't that skilled in warmups. So in Sweden, they have a few different rules: the clock counts from 0 to 20 and there is a cut between each period and after warmups. I was a little nervous at first, but my teammates were encouraging. The Swedes are much more supportive to their teammates than Americans are. My nerves went away after I had a nice rush and got a good shot on net. The first line on our team is special. The center is a 5'8" kid who practices with the men's team as well. His hands are unbelievable and he can get out of any situation on the ice. We ended up winning the game 5-3. I had one assist and finished +2. 


My next game is Thursday and then I have another on Sunday.